LOVE LETTER FROM TAYO AROWOJOLU (4) The Best Man to Marry




Dear Friends

Yes, the name of the blog has changed. I felt the mails now reach more people than my disciples and it would only enhance its relevance if I change the name appropriately. The word 'disciple' presupposes a relationship that is more deeper than mentorship and hence it may not apply to everybody. However, the contents will not in anyway diminish in quality and depth.

We had the Business Men Prayer and Idea Breakfast last Saturday. It was great fun and a learning curve. Again because there were many men around, I felt the bonding. In fact a woman came in and we had to nicely turn her back!!!...lol. Its always fun to be around men. I think we as men have been grossly misunderstood. I discovered from various discussions on the day a fullness of how to meet the desire of a man. These are some of the conclusions on how you can reach his heart:

1. A man want to feel that he has found the woman. He doesn't want the woman to find him. Woman, so don't 'cheapen' yourself. Don't chase him, let him chase you! Gen 2:20-24

2. The man want to be your super-star, the Champion. So be his fan, his supporter and his helper. Gen 2:18;23. Note Rachel protected Jacob. Gen 31:33-35

3. A man want an ego booster, as well as a fan. You know at times fans are fickle! We criticized Arsenal yesterday, but today we cheer them...but an ego booster, is always boosting and stoking your ego. The man also want you to be his safety check too.1Peter 3:6(Sarah); 1Sam 25:23-25(Abigail)

4. A man want a woman that will submit. This is in a manner of true and genuine surrender,for no earthly or physical reason. Eph 5:22

5. And finally, he wants you to be the guide the internal sanctity and pleasures at home, as he guard the external boundary of the home. Prov 31:12;Prov 14:1

Woman...wait for him, he is out there somewhere. He will come.


Other lessons from the breakfast:
1. Be a wealth creator
2. Create a system
3. Be a problem solver
4. What you rule over, you own
5. What you create, you own
6. Ideas rule the world.
7. Don't stop bonding with other men.
8 Don't stop shinning

I continue to love you all. I still pray for you, that it shall be well with each and everyone of you. Amen.
Psalm 128:2


Tayo Arowojolu
@tayoarow

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