80%-20% theory...is it true of your marriage?- repeat

I was trying to resolve some testy and complex issues of marriage, and this theory came up as a poser. It says, men and women may never find 100% satisfaction in their marriages, and thus would look outside of marriage for the missing 20%...what an exchange of practical and down to earth exchanges we had. I then thought up some posers/questions/thoughts, and wonders if one or more of these posers ever crossed your mind? Can you be true...and real...if so, answer these questions and post back to me as comments on my blog www.toughtalk@blogspot.com; if you dare!

POSERS
Always better to have one wife(woman) and One husband(man)

Always better not to be divorced
It is sometimes better to divorce or separate

It is sometimes better to have a partner outside the marriage
It is justified to have a partner if the spouse in house is unbearable

Always better to avoid domestic violence
There are some spouses that they understand only correction through domestic violence

The man is always responsible for the state of the home
The woman is always responsible for the state of the home
They are both responsible equally
They are responsible 60 to the man and 40 to the woman vice versa

Always better to be married
Always better to be married with kids
Always better not to have girlfriends

Always better to have wife as confidants
Always better for man to look after wife and children

Always better to resist outside influence on your marriage

Always better in marriage for couple to have unrestrained sexual relationship...no headache or other spurious excuses
Always better to try oral sex, masturbation and the likes if couple dont have good sexual relationship
Always better to have a time table for sex

Always better for the man to go out with wife and children regularly
Always better for the man to stay at home after work including on Fridays and weekends

Always better for the wife to be a good cook

Always better for the wife to keep to the original size(u know what I mean) or at least show evidence of wanting to keep to the original size

Always better to have joint account, each spouse can then have separate accounts
Always better to invest together

Always better for the woman and the man in marriage to be trendy

Always better for the wife to stop nagging

Always better for the couple to share a kiss first thing in morning and last thing at night
Always better for couples to talk and listen to each other
Always better for couples to disagree to agree
Always better for couples to resolve disagreement before they sleep at night
Always better for the couple to accept 'sorry' after a misbehaviour, and let it end there

Always better for the man to love and the woman to submit unconditionally
Always better for the man to say I love you regularly, and the woman to say I love you regularly.

Always better for couples to share one faith and prayer in that faith together and if both are people without faith to comply with moral laws

Like wine, marriage vintages with time

There are some marriages that are not made in heaven
There are some marriages that are bound to fail.